Communication In Marriage

Make the time to communicate with each other. In order to repair a marriage that has gone through infidelity, there as to be a lot of talking and a lot of communication.

You can’t move forward and heal if you or your spouse are still in having an affair.

First and foremost, end the infidelity.

Don’t forget about your guiding values! Take a good look at your relationship. Why are you in it in the first place? Most likely you both share core values that initially brought you together. Remind each other of what those guiding values are and how they affect your relationship.

Promote and build a safe environment in your marriage

especially your children. Not sharing common values when parenting together can be extremely taxing on a relationship. You should be able to talk to one another about the values you are passionate about so you can focus your energy into those priorities together.

Share in your common values. If you are already married, I am going to assume that you at least share some common values. Values can mean anything from how to handle your finances, your faith,

another that you are both in this for the long run.

Give each other your own space. W

to connect on a regular basis to talk about your goals and the vision you have for each other and your family. What are the steps that each of you are taking to reach those goals? What are you both doing to make that vision a reality? Talking about goals with each other, especially long-term goals, will help to solidify trust in one another that you are both in this for the long run.

Facilitate your emotions by identifying them, naming the feeling/emotion, getting to the root cause of it, and deciding how to act upon it.