Think about some of the important areas in your life right now—school, business, career, fitness, romance, social life, and so on. Do you self-handicap in these areas? If so, you value them. We only self-handicap when we care. For example, we have no need to seriously self-handicap when ordering a meal: “I would have gotten the fish tacos, but my, uh, glasses were foggy.” If you order the wrong thing, it doesn’t matter, because it’s just one meal. (Note: some people may still take a long time to order or may comment about getting the wrong dish, but it won’t be because of self-handicapping.)