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- MissLaiLaiсподели впечатлениепреди 5 години
👍Струва си да се прочете💡Научих много🎯Струва сиIt sheds some light on individuals behaviour when it comes to personal/romantic relationships. It provides the framework to identify the type of attachment person you or your partner are, therefore allowing you to deal with situations faced during interactions with our partners. A good book in understanding ourselves.
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- forgetenotцитирапреди 5 години
Does this mean that in order to be happy in a relationship we need to be joined with our partner at the hip or give up other aspects of our life such as our careers or friends? Paradoxically, the opposite is true! It turns out that the ability to step into the world on our own often stems from the knowledge that there is someone beside us whom we can count on—and this is the “dependency paradox.” The logic of this paradox is hard to follow at first. How can we act more independent by being thoroughly dependent on someone else? If we had to describe the basic premise of adult attachment in a single sentence, it would be: If you want to take the road to independence and happiness, first find the right person to depend on and travel down it with them. Once you understand this, you’ve grasped the essence of attachment theory. - Ana Kashuroцитирапреди 5 месеца
As part of a reaction to a breakup, our brain experiences the departure of an attachment figure in a similar way to that in which it registers physical pain. - Ana Kashuroцитирапреди 5 месецаStudies have found that the same areas in the brain that light up in imaging scans when we break a leg are activated when we split up with our mate.
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