John Heider PH.D

All things and events are vibratory.

Silence is a great source of strength.

A moderate ego demonstrates wisdom.

Can you mediate emotional issues without taking sides or picking favorites?
Can you breathe freely and remain relaxed even in the presence of passionate fears and desires?
Are your own conflicts clarified? Is your own house clean?
Can you be gentle with all factions and lead the group without dominating?
Can you remain open and receptive, no matter what issues arise?
Can you know what is emerging, yet keep your peace while others discover for themselves?
Learn to lead in a nourishing manner.
Learn to lead without being possessive.
Learn to be helpful without taking the credit.
Learn to lead without coercion.
You can do this if you remain unbiased, clear, and down-to-earth.

People’s speech and actions are figural events. They give the group form and content.
The silences and empty spaces, on the other hand, reveal the group’s essential mood, the context for everything that happens. That is the group field.

If you measure success in terms of praise and criticism, your anxiety will be endless.

Having a good reputation or becoming well-known for your work can be a hindrance to your further development.

To know what is happening, push less, open out and be aware. See without staring. Listen quietly rather than listening hard. Use intuition and reflection rather than trying to figure things out.

Nationalism, racism, classism, sexism all arise as consciousness of unity is lost. People take sides and favor this versus that.

If you wish to improve yourself, try silence or some other cleansing discipline that will gradually show you your true selfless self.