According to Robin, “The goal is to take what serves you and leave behind the rest.” After every breakup, take the time to examine what you’ve learned about yourself, what you’ve learned about the type of relationship that works for you, and what you’ve learned in terms of how you want to act in the future. Write it down. Ingest it. Then, as Elsa and every child born after 2010 likes to belt, you have to let it go(ooooo